apologize

uh-POLL-uh-jize /əˈpɒlədʒaɪz/
verbA2TOEFLIELTS
neutral

To express regret or say sorry for a fault, failure, or insult.

This is the most general and common term for expressing regret. It can range from a casual 'sorry' to a formal public statement.

The story behind the word. Originally, an 'apologia' was a formal speech in defense of one's actions, such as Socrates' famous defense in court. Over time, the meaning shifted from 'defending yourself' to 'admitting you were wrong.'

Word relationships

  • say sorry: More informal and common in spoken English.
  • defend: To justify an action rather than admitting it was wrong.

Commonly confused with

  • excuse: An excuse seeks to lessen blame, while an apology accepts it.

Word family

  • apology (noun): The act of apologizing.
  • apologetic (adjective): Showing or expressing regret.

Collocations

  • apologize profusely
  • apologize for the inconvenience
  • sincerely apologize

Idioms & expressions

  • owe someone an apology

Example sentences

  • "I apologize for the delay in responding to your letter." A formal public statement.
  • "He had to apologize, but the words felt like dry crackers in his mouth." A literary example of a forced apology.

Memory hook

Think of 'A-Polo-Guys': If you hit one of the polo guys with your horse, you better apologize! A defense that turned into a sorry.

When not to use

Avoid using this when a legal or financial payment is required; 'compensate' or 'indemnify' would be more appropriate in those cases.

Fun facts

  • In the 16th century, an 'apology' was often a long, written book defending a religious or political position.

Related words

regret, amends

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