bicker
BIK-er
/ˈbɪkər/
To argue about petty and trivial matters in a repetitive, annoying way.
Bickering is less about the subject of the argument and more about the constant, nagging nature of the interaction. It is common among siblings or long-term partners.
The story behind the word. The word originally described a skirmish or a physical attack in the 13th century. Over time, the 'attack' moved from the battlefield to the dinner table, softening into the verbal sniping we recognize today.
Word relationships
- squabble: Squabble often implies a slightly noisier or more childish argument than bicker.
- agree: To have the same opinion rather than arguing over small ones.
Commonly confused with
- quarrel: A quarrel is usually more serious and involves a breakdown in a relationship, whereas bickering is just annoying habit.
Word family
- bickering (noun): The act of engaging in petty arguments.
Collocations
- constant bickering
- bicker over trifles
- stop bickering
Example sentences
- "The children bickered in the back seat over who got the last juice box." Describing a long car ride with children.
Memory hook
Think of two birds 'pecking' at each other. Bicker sounds like peck-er. Bicker: Pecking at petty things.
When not to use
Do not use for serious or violent conflicts; it implies the matter is too small to be taken seriously.
Fun facts
- In the 14th century, bicker could also mean the sound of water rushing over stones.
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