empathy
The psychological ability to understand and vicariously experience the feelings, thoughts, and condition of another person.
Focuses on internal imaginative substitution — stepping directly into someone else's emotional shoes rather than merely feeling sorry for them.
Word relationships
- vicarious understanding: Emphasizes the indirect, secondary experiencing of another's emotions.
- attunement: Refers more to ongoing sensory and emotional alignment with another person's state.
- apathy: Total lack of interest, feeling, or concern for others.
- callousness: Active emotional hardness or unfeeling disregard for pain.
Commonly confused with
- sympathy: Sympathy is feeling compassion or sorrow for someone; empathy is feeling their experience as if it were your own.
Word family
- empathetic (adjective): Showing or feeling an understanding of another's emotions.
- empathize (verb): To understand and share the feelings of another.
- empath (noun): A person with an extraordinary capacity to feel others' emotional states.
Collocations
- deep empathy
- empathy fatigue
- cultivate empathy
- demonstrate empathy
Idioms & expressions
- walk in someone else's shoes
Example sentences
- "Empathy enables us to cross the boundary between self and other, allowing readers to inhabit minds fundamentally different from their own." Literature analysis
- "Leadership is about empathy. It is about having the ability to relate to and connect with people for the purpose of inspiring and empowering their lives." Non-fiction quote (Oprah Winfrey)
Memory hook
Think of entering the 'PATH' of someone else's 'EM-otions' to feel what they feel inside. EM-pathy = entering someone's emotional PATH.
When not to use
Do not confuse with sympathy, which implies feeling pity or sorrow for another's distress without necessarily sharing their experience.
Fun facts
- The word 'empathy' is barely a century old in English, despite describing a timeless human trait.
- Neuroscientists attribute our capacity for empathy to mirror neurons in the prefrontal cortex.
Related words
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empathetic, sympathetic, sympathize, vicarious, compassionate, heartfelt
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