intimacy

IN-tih-muh-see /ˈɪntɪməsi/
nounB2SATACTIELTSTOEFL
neutralformal

Close familiarity or friendship; closeness.

Implies deep emotional or physical connection, vulnerability, and mutual understanding, going beyond mere acquaintance.

The story behind the word. The word intimacy traces back to the Latin 'intimus', meaning 'innermost'. To share intimacy is to allow someone into the deepest, most private chambers of your mind and heart.

Word relationships

  • closeness: Closeness can refer to physical proximity or simple familiarity, whereas intimacy always implies deep emotional exposure.
  • estrangement: Estrangement is the state of being alienated or distanced from someone, the polar opposite of intimacy.

Commonly confused with

  • familiarity: Familiarity means knowing someone or something well, but it lacks the deep emotional vulnerability of intimacy.

Word family

  • intimate (adjective): Closely acquainted; familiar.
  • intimately (adverb): In a close or detailed manner.

Collocations

  • emotional intimacy
  • physical intimacy
  • sense of intimacy
  • develop intimacy

Example sentences

  • "The therapist noted that true intimacy requires a willingness to be imperfect." A philosophical reflection on relationships

Memory hook

Think of 'Into-me-see' — intimacy is letting someone look deep inside you. Into-me-see

When not to use

Do not use to describe simple professional alignment or superficial acquaintance.

Fun facts

  • In the 17th century, 'intimate' was often used as a verb meaning 'to make known' or 'to hint', which is why we still 'intimate' suggestions today.

Related words

vulnerability, rapport

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