conform
kuhn-FORM
/kənˈfɔːrm/
To behave according to socially acceptable conventions or standards; to be similar in form or type.
Often implies a passive or automatic adjustment to fit a mold, rather than a forced one.
The story behind the word. From the Latin 'con-' (together) and 'formare' (to form). It literally means to take the same shape as others. In the Middle Ages, it was often used in a religious context to describe living according to the 'form' of the church.
Word relationships
- comply: Comply suggests following a specific rule or command, while conform is about general behavior.
- adapt: Adapt implies a change for survival or efficiency, whereas conform is about social alignment.
- rebel: Rebel implies active opposition, while non-conforming might just be passive difference.
Commonly confused with
- confirm: Confirm means to verify truth; conform means to follow a pattern.
Word family
- conformity (noun): The act of matching attitudes and behaviors to group norms.
Collocations
- conform to standards
- pressure to conform
- refuse to conform
Idioms & expressions
- toe the line
- fit the mold
Example sentences
- "The pressure to conform to the group's expectations can be overwhelming for teenagers." A classic sociological observation on social pressure.
- "He did not conform to the standard image of a hero." A literary example regarding societal expectations.
Memory hook
Think of 'forming' a circle with others—you have to 'conform' your position to keep the shape perfect. Conform = Common Form.
When not to use
Do not use when someone is forced through threats; use 'comply' or 'obey' instead.
Fun facts
- In the 1950s, the 'Man in the Gray Flannel Suit' became the ultimate symbol of the pressure to conform in corporate America.
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