clinging
KLING-ing
/ˈklɪŋ.ɪŋ/
Holding on tightly to something; overly dependent on someone for emotional support.
When used for people, it is usually negative, suggesting a lack of confidence or an annoying level of neediness.
The story behind the word. From the Old English 'clingan', meaning 'to stick together' or 'to shrink'. It originally described how things would shrivel up and stick to themselves as they dried out.
Word relationships
- adherent: Adherent is a formal word for sticking to something; clinging is more physical and emotional.
- aloof: Aloof means staying distant or detached.
Commonly confused with
- clinching: Clinching means settling a deal or holding someone in a fight; clinging is just holding on.
Word family
- cling (verb): To hold on tightly.
- clingy (adjective): Tending to cling (informal).
Collocations
- clinging vine
- clinging behavior
- clinging dress
Example sentences
- "The toddler was clinging to his mother's leg, refusing to join the other children at the party." Child development.
- "The wet silk was clinging to her skin, making it difficult to move." Describing a fabric.
Memory hook
Think of 'Saran Wrap'—it is 'clinging' to the bowl. Clinging: Can't let go.
When not to use
Do not use this for a healthy hug; it implies a grip that is difficult to break or emotionally stifling.
Fun facts
- 'Clinging vines' is a common metaphor for people who are overly dependent on others for their social or financial status.
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