banter
BAN-ter
/ˈbæn.tər/
The playful and friendly exchange of teasing remarks.
Banter is a key component of flirting; it is lighthearted, quick-witted, and never intended to be mean-spirited.
The story behind the word. The origin of 'banter' is a mystery. It first appeared in the late 17th century as London slang, and Jonathan Swift once complained that it was a sign of the 'decline' of the English language.
Word relationships
- repartee: 'Repartee' is more formal and emphasizes cleverness and speed.
- chaff: 'Chaff' is an older, more British term for lighthearted teasing.
- criticism: The expression of disapproval of someone or something.
Commonly confused with
- mockery: Mockery is intended to belittle; banter is intended to bond.
Word family
- bantering (adjective): Characterized by good-humored teasing.
Collocations
- witty banter
- playful banter
- lighthearted banter
Example sentences
- "The witty banter between the two protagonists made the romantic comedy a hit." Describing the chemistry between two leads in a movie.
- "There was a good deal of friendly banter going on." A description of social interaction.
Memory hook
Banter is like a 'ball' being tossed back and forth in a game. Banter: Playful 'back-and-forth'.
When not to use
Do not use for serious arguments or heavy romantic declarations.
Fun facts
- In the 1600s, 'banter' was considered a 'low' word, much like how we might view modern internet slang today.
Related words
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