talk down

tawk DOWN /tɔːk daʊn/
verbC1GRECAT
neutral

To speak to someone as if they are less clever or important than oneself; to patronize.

Always negative; it implies an arrogant or superior attitude.

The story behind the word. The 'down' signifies a vertical hierarchy. The speaker places themselves 'above' the listener and speaks 'down' to them.

Word relationships

  • patronize: 'Patronize' is the formal equivalent.
  • defer to: To speak to someone with respect or as an authority.

Commonly confused with

  • talk over: 'Talk over' means to discuss something or to interrupt; 'talk down' is about status.

Collocations

  • talk down to someone
  • be talked down to
  • stop talking down

Example sentences

  • "Nobody likes the manager because he constantly talks down to his subordinates." Workplace dynamics.
  • "She felt the professor was talking down to her because of her age." A social critique.

Memory hook

Imagine a giant speaking to a tiny person as if they are a baby. High horse, low talk.

When not to use

Don't use it if someone is just explaining something simply for clarity; it must involve an insult to the listener's intelligence.

Fun facts

  • In aviation, 'talk down' means to give instructions to a pilot to help them land in an emergency.

Related words

call out, butt in

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