etiquette
EH-tih-ket
/ˈetɪket/
The customary code of polite behavior in society or among members of a particular profession or group.
Focuses specifically on manners, politeness, and the formal rules of social interaction, often associated with high society or professional standards.
The story behind the word. In the court of King Louis XIV of France, gardeners kept getting frustrated because courtiers trampled the royal lawns. They posted small signs, or 'étiquettes' (tickets/labels), warning people to keep off the grass. Eventually, these 'tickets' were printed with rules on how to behave in front of the King, and the word came to mean the rules of polite society themselves.
Word relationships
- decorum: Decorum refers to dignified, self-controlled behavior in a specific setting, whereas etiquette is the system of rules governing that behavior.
- manners: Manners is a more informal, everyday term for polite behavior, while etiquette implies a structured, formal code.
- impropriety: Impropriety is a failure to observe standards of honesty or proper behavior.
- rudeness: Rudeness is a direct, active display of bad manners or lack of respect.
Commonly confused with
- protocol: Protocol refers to the official, strict rules of diplomatic or military state affairs, whereas etiquette is for general social or professional politeness.
Word family
- etiquette-conscious (adjective): Highly aware of and attentive to social rules of politeness.
Collocations
- social etiquette
- professional etiquette
- breach of etiquette
- business etiquette
Example sentences
- "Proper dining etiquette requires keeping your elbows off the table." Explaining formal dining rules.
- "Netiquette, or online etiquette, discourages typing in all capital letters as it mimics shouting." Discussing modern digital communication.
Memory hook
Think of a 'ticket' (etiquette) you need to enter a polite, high-society event. Follow the etiquette ticket to behave politely.
When not to use
Do not use to describe moral or ethical decisions; etiquette is about social form and politeness, not necessarily deep moral goodness.
Fun facts
- The word 'ticket' in English actually shares the exact same French root as 'etiquette'—one became a label for entry, the other a label for behavior!
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